Sunny,
Here's a little story about a girl. She's quite an easy being-provoked girl. Sometimes, when her parents talk to her and there was something that really annoys her, she can really have a big reaction and treat them rudely. The way she talk to her parents is just the same as how she talked to her friends. Of course, with parents she can talk more freely than sometime with friends. Or I shall say that she treated her friends more polite than her parents. lol..
Her attitude towards her parents is not counted to be good..BUT it's not that bad afterall. She do care about her parents Just that sometimes when her parents couldn't understand the youngster feeling, she'll scold back the parents and argue with them. OUCH!!
THIS IS NOT A GOOD FEELING DEFINATELY.. She does feel very guilty after each and every quarrel. But it can't help to stop her from started the quarrels. Maybe because of her pride or her parent's pride. Oh well, both do not want to be the loser. LOL.. This is NOT FUNNY!
Oh yea, sometimes she hurted her parents feeling by comparing with other's parents. This really strike to the parent's heart. She knew it.. But in the purpose of getting their conservative mind, opened, she guess that's the only way she can do. Well, now i'm sure that there's other way to open parent's mind. To certain extense, her parents really loves her soo much until they willing to let her mumbled and scolded, but she just sometimes being overboard and so meant and rude to them. Oh.. until here, do you hate this girl with this kind of attitude? I bet you wanted to smack her now too. LOLZ.Here's a little story about a girl. She's quite an easy being-provoked girl. Sometimes, when her parents talk to her and there was something that really annoys her, she can really have a big reaction and treat them rudely. The way she talk to her parents is just the same as how she talked to her friends. Of course, with parents she can talk more freely than sometime with friends. Or I shall say that she treated her friends more polite than her parents. lol..
Her attitude towards her parents is not counted to be good..BUT it's not that bad afterall. She do care about her parents Just that sometimes when her parents couldn't understand the youngster feeling, she'll scold back the parents and argue with them. OUCH!!
THIS IS NOT A GOOD FEELING DEFINATELY.. She does feel very guilty after each and every quarrel. But it can't help to stop her from started the quarrels. Maybe because of her pride or her parent's pride. Oh well, both do not want to be the loser. LOL.. This is NOT FUNNY!
She wanted to post this entry since long time ago. Finally today is the time for the entry.
Each time, when she's back from study at overseas (over Penang strait), her parents will be extremely happy, invite her home with a big smile and big care. They will buy and cook expensive and delicious food for her almost every chance they have to serve their daughter. Oh.. (Just couldn't stop my tears from rolling on my cheeks now). But what the girl did was... started the fire! A BIG and SERIOUS quarrel with the both parents. Well, her mother is just being over-protective towards this child until she banned the child from going abroad for holidays. But the child just couldn't let go easily the chance of going overseas as she's extremely influenced by looking at her other friends going overseas for vacation with their boyfriend/girlfriend. She wanted to have those lovely dovey memories as well. But with the conservative way of thinking of her mother, lead to the answer of "NO! you are not allowed! It's dangerous!".
However, her dad the more open-minded, always being so so supportive in whatever her daughter do, had scolded her mother and the fight between the spouses begun too. The girl had caused all the tragic and she was very very guilty. What should she do? She's a young adult now. She has the right to go out and it's time for her to go out to really take a look at the real world. Oh, i guess she'll have to wait until she really can proves to her parents that she is tough enough to take care of herself.
BUT
Today, what drove her to write this entry was..when crossing the road after the dinner, she saw her mother walked real slow as she was being suffered from leg pain, walking too much for her is a kind of torture. So she held out her hand for her mother to hold but her mother rejected and said...
"Gal, no need to hold me (my hand) when cross the road la... Because i do not want you to think that i'm old. I do not want you to be embarrass to have a very old mother which unable to even cross the road."
Hmm... She was real guilty to what she has done and how she treated her parents and family before. She swear now.. That she'll really behave as their good daughter and stop all the fancies. Well, each family has their own different back-ground, no comparison and envy shall be made with our own beloved family.
I hope everyone who read my blog will be touched and get my message as well, and be acknowledge that no one will be there treated you as true and pure hearted as your parent and family. Recall back how long have you never really go back and meet them and how long that you didn't even hug them or chat with them. Even a short conversation and some caring words can really sweetened their life.
P/S: Please ignore all the grammatical errors and enjoy the story.
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