7.13.2009

unconditional love

Sunny,

What is love?
There's many definitions for it.
But for me,
Love is something very special.
If someone loves you more from the start, doesn't means dat he/she will loves you the same way as beginning as you both are holding hands going through the journey of life.
It's something miracle.
Things will change easily.
I myself have learn what is a long distance and long term relationship.
To ensure a continuation in a long term relationship,
You must really understand your partner thoroughly.
What is he doing now,
What he wants, what he likes,
When is the correct time to call him,
Is the solution you gave him suits him,
How to give him surprises,
How to give him enough space for him to do his stuff,
How to give him moral support and be able to push him to go further in his career and studies,
How to care him,
How to love him.

Well, for most of the girls, i'm sure that you will all think that is silly,
Because what i've just mentioned here is suppose on how a guy treat their girlfriend.
But, once you found yourself fell to the love trap,
You will do all this thing unconditionally.
There will be no more loving ratio of each other to play their role.

Somehow you'll found this very hard to be done.
Because you will never know,
When is his free time,
What is his mood for now,
Is it the right time to disturb him,
Is it alright to tell him the problem that you discovered in the relationship,
Is the care we give is enough,
How to cheer him up when he's not in mood,
And... Are you giving him pressure and adding to his frust?
Is he GETTING BORED OF YOU!

All the thing you did is just for one purpose... is to strengthen the long term and long distance relationship... Neway, you are still not anyone to control the conclusion. The end conclusion whether is a happy ones or a sad ones is still very unclear and unpredictable..

P.S: I think i learnt what is an unconditional love.
And i hope that this will be my last post about the emo in relationship as the coming post will all be the happy memories that i'm going to have.

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